How to entertain kids at your wedding: Tips for a stress free day
Weddings are magical, love-filled occasions – but when you have little guests on your list, it’s worth planning ahead to make sure they have just as good a time as the adults. Children bring wonderful energy and unforgettable moments, but short attention spans and tired legs can sometimes cause challenges. Keeping kids entertained ensures a smoother, more relaxed day for everyone – especially their parents.
As a wedding photographer, I’ve seen first-hand how a little planning goes a long way when it comes to children at weddings. From confetti smiles to tiny dancefloor stars, kids can create some of the most heart-warming moments of your wedding gallery. Here are my top tips for keeping them happy, engaged, and part of the celebration.
Start with a Plan
Begin by looking at your guest list. Are you expecting toddlers, school-age children, or teenagers? Different ages need different kinds of entertainment. Younger children might love colouring stations, while older kids may prefer outdoor games or a chill-out corner.
Create a Child-Friendly Zone
A designated kids’ area works wonders. This could be a tipi filled with books and puzzles, a table of colouring sheets and crayons, or a cosy corner with beanbags. If your venue has outdoor space, think shaded garden tents with soft toys and games.
Fun Entertainment Ideas
Keep Tummies Happy
Hungry kids are grumpy kids! Offering a child-friendly menu with simple favourites like pasta, pizza, or chicken strips can make a big difference. Consider snacks or earlier meal times to avoid mid-speech meltdowns.
A Special Children’s Table
Older kids might love having their own decorated table filled with games, puzzles, and bright place settings. For little ones, sitting with parents is usually best, so flexibility is key.
Hire Professional Childcare
Mobile crèches and wedding nannies are becoming increasingly popular. These DBS-checked professionals bring games, toys, and experience so parents can relax and enjoy the party. Some even offer bedtime routines if your venue has accommodation.
Involve Them in the Day
Children love to feel included. Flower girls, page boys, confetti throwers, or even poem readers can add a personal touch to your ceremony. Just make sure you’ve got a backup plan in case nerves take over!
Don’t Forget the Wind-Down
After hours of excitement, kids will need a calm space. Set up a quiet room with books, soft lighting, or even a few cartoons. Parents will thank you for it.
Keep Parents in the Loop
Whatever you plan, let parents know in advance – whether it’s activity packs, a play area, or professional childcare. It helps them prepare and ensures everyone can enjoy the celebration.
Final Thoughts
With a little planning, children can be a joyful part of your wedding day, creating sweet, natural moments that I love capturing on camera. Happy kids mean happy parents – and that’s a win for everyone.
If you’re planning a wedding in Northamptonshire or across the UK and want timeless, natural photography that captures every story – from confetti chaos to tiny hands sneaking cake – I’d love to chat.
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